"Women in Their Masculine Energy Call Forth Wimpy Men: How to Call Forth the Confident Man You Desire"

There’s a pattern that many strong, capable women fall into... especially those who are used to getting things done, leading, and holding everything together. If you’ve been operating from your masculine energy for too long, especially in your relationship, you might notice your partner unconsciously stepping into their feminine energy. In fact, you may even find yourself attracting men who lead with their feminine energy. This imbalance can leave you feeling unseen, unsupported, or frustrated.

If you’re longing to feel cherished, magnetic, and more at ease, the solution isn’t about doing more, it’s about shifting your energy. Many women who carry strong masculine energy silently wish their partner would take the lead more—initiate plans, hold emotional space, or take charge. But for him to step into his masculine, there needs to be space for it. When you soften, receive, and create that space, you invite him to rise.

🌸 The Feminine Shift: What to Practice and How

Ready to step out of “control mode” and into your natural feminine flow? Here’s how to start. Below are some common masculine habits women slip into and simple ways to shift them into feminine energy practices:

Masculine Habit	Feminine Energy Practice	How to Do It
Directing / Telling him what to do	🗣 Ask lovingly for what you want	Use phrases like “I would love…” or “It would feel so good if…” instead of giving commands.
Controlling outcomes	🌸 Accept, not control	Let go of the “how.” Allow him to do things his way, and breathe through the discomfort of imperfection.
Judging / Correcting	💖 Appreciate instead of judge	Notice his effort. Say, “Thank you for taking care of that,” even if it’s not done exactly how you’d like.
Over-giving / Overfunctioning	🌬 Relax and receive	Stop jumping in. Ask for support and let him deliver, even imperfectly.
Rescuing him emotionally	🌊 Allow his process	Don’t try to fix his emotions. Be a soft space where he can feel, without needing to be directed or corrected.
Always doing / organizing	🧘️ Surrender and trust	Pause. Let life support you. Trust him to step up when there’s space for him to lead.
Downplaying your desires	🌟 Consistently appreciate & receive	Let compliments, affection, and gifts land. Don’t deflect or brush them off. Simply say “thank you” and let the warmth in.

Appreciation and the art of receiving are two of the most powerful ways to embody your feminine energy. But if you’re looking for lasting change—not just temporary behavior shifts—there’s a deeper invitation here.

Many women don’t operate in their masculine energy by choice. For some, it’s a survival mechanism—an attempt to feel safe, grounded, or in control after experiencing fear, abandonment, or not feeling “enough.” Beneath the control, the over-functioning, and the constant organizing, there’s often a story—one that’s deeply rooted in fear or past trauma.

To truly relax into your feminine energy, you need to be willing to examine that story. What does it say? When did you first start believing it? What could be possible if you let it go?

True safety doesn’t come from controlling everything—it comes from healing the belief that you aren’t safe in the first place. When you address that belief at its root, shifting into feminine energy becomes less about trying and more about returning to what’s already inside you.

When you allow yourself to be filled—emotionally, energetically, and physically—you stop grasping for control and begin attracting with grace. And when you focus on appreciating your partner, rather than judging or criticizing, you create a space for him to feel seen, trusted, and inspired to show up more fully in the relationship.

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